The other day I gave a talk to couples about sexuality and someone asked me what a “P” spot was and without thinking I assumed they were talking about the “G” spot in women since that is the question I am usually asked. However, what I believe they were asking about is the male “G” spot which is the term most often used; “P” spot is correct but it is a term less frequently used.
The male “G” spot is located internally which is about 2 inches inside the anus on the front wall of the rectum, just below the bladder. This is where the walnut sized prostate gland is located and stimulating this gland can produce a much more intense orgasm for the man. Many men feel shy about having their prostate massaged but once they get over the hurdle of embarrassment many men enjoy the experience immensely.
Please remember that cleanliness is very important when anal play is involved. Make sure to wash your hands and especially the penis if there is to be vaginal penetration after anal sex. This will prevent infections.
Science tells us that generally women do not like the way men smell unless they are ovulating. Very light cologne or aftershave isn’t a bad idea when dating. During the fertile time of month women tend to be attracted to male scents (pheromones, HLA genes) that tell them who is most compatible with their immune systems. The more diverse and dissimilar a guy’s immune system is from your own, the more attractive his BO is to you when you might be hunting out sperm to fertilize your egg. After all, if you’re going to go through the trouble of having a rug rat, you want a healthy strong one who can withstand all of the germs, pollutants, viruses, etc. in the environment.
Some research has shown that the pill seems to interfere with this pheromone selection process. Pill-packing people may pick poor partners from a bio diversity perspective. Women on the pill find scents that indicate similar HLA genes, such as Cousin Charlie, instead of new guy, Ned. Some psychologists will recommend going off the pill for a few months before shopping for Mr. Right-Daddy.
The good news is that once you fall in love with someone, their scent miraculously becomes perfume-like regardless of their HLA Genes. Emotional attachment trumps it all, except for a guy wearing half a bottle of any cologne, no matter how expensive it is- yuck.
